Wingman - AI Dating coach

Overview

Wingman.live offers AI‑driven coaching for straight men on dating apps, providing profile photo and bio reviews, messaging strategy, open‑and‑reply suggestions, and memory‑aware chat support, all across iOS, Android, and web with privacy safeguards.

From the official site

Wingman is the AI dating coach that remembers every match, every conversation, and every detail. Rate your photos, fix your bio, get openers, and know where you stand. Free on iPhone, Android, and web.

The text above is quoted from this tool’s official website — the vendor’s own words.

Official FAQ

What makes Wingman different from ChatGPT or other dating AIs?

Memory. Other chatbots forget you the moment you close the app, so every session starts with you re-explaining. Wingman keeps an ongoing coach chat plus a dedicated thread for every person you're seeing. It remembers where you met, what stage you're at, and what happened last time. The advice is about your actual dating life, not dating in general. It is also built to be straight with you, not dip

Is Wingman free?

Yes. There is a real free tier: coach chat, a few Romantic Interests, photo ratings and openers, and quizzes, all with limits. Premium takes the limits off and unlocks Fix My Bio, Full Profile Review, Check My Vibe, and Compare Photos. You can start without a card.

Which apps does it work with?

All of them. Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, OkCupid, Instagram, Snapchat, or someone you met in person. Wingman works from screenshots and from what you tell it, so it isn't tied to any one platform.

Can I use it on my phone and my computer?

Both. Wingman is on the App Store, Google Play, and the web. All three share one account and one memory. Start a conversation on your phone and finish it on your laptop. The apps ship in English, Spanish, and French.

What's a Frame Score?

A read on the balance of a connection: who's chasing, who's investing, and whether that's working for you. Wingman builds it from the conversations you share about a specific person. You can ask it to explain the score and what to do about it.

How does Wingman protect my privacy?

Your dating life is personal, so it's treated that way. Conversations with Wingman are anonymized, so your identity isn't linked to the content of your chats. We don't see or store your name, email, or payment details alongside them. Anything used to improve the service is stripped of identifying details, and you can opt out at any time. We don't sell, rent, or share your data with third parties.

These questions and answers come from the tool’s own structured data, not written by us.

How to use it

1. Register at wingman.live and start a new conversation
2. Give the background and the goal first, then the specific requirement
3. Keep following up until the answer converges on something usable
4. Save the result, or hand it to another tool for further work